What if...

What if you feel like you have been trying so hard to be a good wife, but nothing in your marriage has changed?

What if your husband still treats you the same and you have thoughts of injustice, bitterness, and frustration?

Maybe you are focusing on the wrong man.

What about the man who has been watching you?

Thou knowest my downsitting and mine uprising, thou understandest my thought afar off.

Thou compassest my path and my lying down, and art acquainted with all my ways.

For there is not a word in my tongue, but, lo, O LORD, thou knowest it altogether.

Thou hast beset me behind and before, and laid thine hand upon me.

Psalm 139:2-5

He is constantly thinking about you.

Many, O LORD my God, are thy wonderful works which thou hast done, and thy thoughts which are to us-ward: they cannot be reckoned up in order unto thee: if I would declare and speak of them, they are more than can be numbered.

Psalm 40:5

How precious also are thy thoughts unto me, O God! how great is the sum of them!

 If I should count them, they are more in number than the sand: when I awake, I am still with thee.

Psalm 139:17&18

For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.

Jer 29:11

He gives you flowers every spring and summer.

He will listen to you when your heart is troubled.  

He is faithful to the very end.

He loves you enough that he died for you.

He knows you inside and out.

He has asked you to respect and reverence your husband.  He knows everything that your husband does or doesn't do, everything he says or doesn't say.  He knows every decision your spouse will make, and he still tells you to submit to him.

He knows what your husband can become.  He knows you are the woman that will be the best help meet for him.  He has made you to be.  

Submit to your husband with joy because God has told you to.  Reverence him with thanksgiving because your first and best lover commands you to.

Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time:

 Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.

1 Peter 5:6&7

Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.

 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

Matthew 11:28-30