Most women are under the impression that men just want more sex, that they will never have enough.
The truth is that your man wants you to want him sexually. Your sexual desire for him is what satisfies him.
He wants you to have fun with him.
Sex is such a huge part of his life, and your lack of desire for it is a lack of a desire for him. It is a reflection of your heart.
Men take sexual rejection personally.
When you ignore his advances, use an excuse (too tired, headache, not in the mood, etc) or just flat out say no, you are not just saying no to sex, men take is a no to who they are as a man.
Sex is the best way for you to tell your husband that he is the most important thing in your life.
Sex is a way for your husband to feel completely accepted and loved by you.
Besides all that, it is your duty to give him great sex.
The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
1 Cor 7:4-5 (KJV)
His body is yours to take care of.
Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.
1 Cor 11:9 (KJV)
You are made to be his help-meet.
You are made to meet his needs.
Do not wait until you are "in the mood".
Seek to put your husband first.
Learn to delight in serving him
Get creative.
Surprise him.
Your desire to please him sexually will bolster his confidence.
Your desire for him physically affirms him, makes him feel like he can take on the world.
Challenge
-Plan ahead to give your husband great sex in the next couple days.
If you are lost as to how to make this great for your husband, ask God to give you wisdom and inspiration.
